Sex & Sex magic
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fariewytch77Ok so I usually do not talk about my sex life, it’s not something I usually feel the need to express or feel that people want to hear. Don't get me wrong, it’s a great, awesome, and interesting sex life, but as it is with the same man I have been having said sex with for the last 17 years and I have never truly had someone to talk to about it as some would have freaked out and others would have cringed and say you don't talk about those things, it something I rarely talk about.
Sex magic is also area I have never explored. Hubby is not witchy and not interested in being witchy. As this area belongs to him I never bothered to look it up or study up on it, which brings me to today's post.
WTF was that last night. It started out normal enough and for the most part was as vanilla, as we get. Not that we're super kinky, but kinky we can and usually are (it keeps things interesting). We were both tired and hadn't managed to hook up all week: kids that won't sleep + stress + bad work week for both of us = no sex for us :(
Still last night we heat up, lots of kissing and feeling and then Hubby's amazing tongue does wonders to me. Several orgasms, some repositioning and other fun stuff later, we get to the main event. A couple more o’s for me (yes I am very orgasmic, yeah for me) & hubby gets to his happy place bringing to my final orgasm. This is where things get weird… I went supernova, it took forever with wave after wave crashing thru me and things got fuzzy, really fuzzy almost as if I wasn’t here anymore right as or just before it happens. I’d gone dimensional. The world and hubby blurred as it went on and on and then suddenly it stopped, hard stop, and I was done. Not just done, I was spent. I had little to no energy left, rolled over to get water barley sipped it (and thank goodness it was out of one of those straw water bottles because I almost dropped it) and was asleep before I could blink, which is not normal for me at all.
Yes I can get sleepy and drowsy after, though just as often it I get hungry. Plus its usually cuddle time. So even when I am really sleepy and drained from the day, it’s rare either one of us give that time up. Even so the sleepy part I can get past. The extremely intense and mind altering orgasm is a different thing. I have had whoppers and really long ones too, but I have never felt like I was leaving this earthly plain.
It felt witchy and actually it almost felt as if that last one wasn’t even with hubby. Not sure if that makes sense. I could see hubby, and I know I was with him, but in that instant it almost as felt like I was jolted into the orgasm not receiving it as part of the night’s pleasures. Because I am so well sated by my last orgasm is usually a weaker and less mind blowing that the rest of them, not like the lighting strike that I experienced last night. I am really going to have to look sex magic up. Really going to have figure out where that o came from because it was not from hubby and if it happens again, really going to have to figure out how to protect myself or if I need protecting at all?
Sex magic is also area I have never explored. Hubby is not witchy and not interested in being witchy. As this area belongs to him I never bothered to look it up or study up on it, which brings me to today's post.
WTF was that last night. It started out normal enough and for the most part was as vanilla, as we get. Not that we're super kinky, but kinky we can and usually are (it keeps things interesting). We were both tired and hadn't managed to hook up all week: kids that won't sleep + stress + bad work week for both of us = no sex for us :(
Still last night we heat up, lots of kissing and feeling and then Hubby's amazing tongue does wonders to me. Several orgasms, some repositioning and other fun stuff later, we get to the main event. A couple more o’s for me (yes I am very orgasmic, yeah for me) & hubby gets to his happy place bringing to my final orgasm. This is where things get weird… I went supernova, it took forever with wave after wave crashing thru me and things got fuzzy, really fuzzy almost as if I wasn’t here anymore right as or just before it happens. I’d gone dimensional. The world and hubby blurred as it went on and on and then suddenly it stopped, hard stop, and I was done. Not just done, I was spent. I had little to no energy left, rolled over to get water barley sipped it (and thank goodness it was out of one of those straw water bottles because I almost dropped it) and was asleep before I could blink, which is not normal for me at all.
Yes I can get sleepy and drowsy after, though just as often it I get hungry. Plus its usually cuddle time. So even when I am really sleepy and drained from the day, it’s rare either one of us give that time up. Even so the sleepy part I can get past. The extremely intense and mind altering orgasm is a different thing. I have had whoppers and really long ones too, but I have never felt like I was leaving this earthly plain.
It felt witchy and actually it almost felt as if that last one wasn’t even with hubby. Not sure if that makes sense. I could see hubby, and I know I was with him, but in that instant it almost as felt like I was jolted into the orgasm not receiving it as part of the night’s pleasures. Because I am so well sated by my last orgasm is usually a weaker and less mind blowing that the rest of them, not like the lighting strike that I experienced last night. I am really going to have to look sex magic up. Really going to have figure out where that o came from because it was not from hubby and if it happens again, really going to have to figure out how to protect myself or if I need protecting at all?
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Date: 2014-05-18 05:57 pm (UTC)It's not something I researched, it just started happening and I went with it. The times I've tried researching it I've found all sorts of stuff that didn't apply, or were just funky so I've figured things out on my own. You could also try searching for sacred sexuality.
I don't think it's something you need protecting from, it just means something more opened up than you're used to. It can be the presence of a deity, giving you some extra o-juice, or your own spirit making deeper contact and wanting to give you "information downloads". All sorts of interesting things can happen, but I've never had it be a bad experience.....not at all.
PS....you know at least 2 of us that experience witchy sex so....you can totally have girly witchy sex talk. ;)
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Date: 2014-05-21 03:18 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2014-05-22 08:10 pm (UTC)At first for me it was Oshun showing up and adding extra witchy energy, and then Pomba also. Sometimes both. Ahem, steamy sex!
Then also sometimes there's just more energy created and they come to soak in it. I have their altars in my room and they love all the sexual energy.
I'm glad I helped inspire you to share! :-)
When I started experiencing the witchy sex I didn't know anyone and had that - "omg am I crazy" thought? But thankfully there was lj.
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Date: 2014-05-21 12:25 am (UTC)Okay given your psychic tendencies, I want to suggest that what might have happened is that a deity came in to take the energy. A few years after I started to work with Aphrodite, maybe less than a few years, She would appear as I was about to climax and take the energy as an offering. Oshun likes blow jobs, and so that works for this household...I cant have sex without a deity showing up (usually). Sometimes I get direct communication from the deities at this time.
If this is what happened, it isnt technically sex magick, as that is harnessing the power of an orgasm (or held back orgasm) for a spell...so instead of dancing to raise a cone, you use the orgasm. But of course its all related.
I have a great book to share, its got a goofy title but its the only good thing I have ever read on sex magick. Its called Secrets of the German Sex Magicians.
Believe me, this is likely just the beginning of a bunch of shenanigans like this. ;)
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Date: 2014-05-21 03:46 am (UTC)Glad you enjoyed. Not sure what you mean by of course I am multi-orgasmic, but yes it is very cool.
I guess that makes sense and after a few days reflecting, plus reading both your and meeow712's comments it feels right. Not sure which deity though, will have to explore.
Oshun likes bj's? Really? She's going love this house too. Used to be meh about giving them then about few years ago I picked up an erotic novel that gave great details to a good bj. Amazing what you can learn fromt those books, lol.
Would love to see the book. Especially if this is going to start happening more often.
Things should get very interesting ;0
Now if I can get the kiddy's to stay in bed.
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Date: 2014-05-21 05:20 pm (UTC)I want to learn BJ tricks from an erotic novel! Do you still have it? I dont know if the BJs for Oshun thing is a thing, or just our thing, but I have another friend who taught me that if Aphrodite didnt want to give up my orgasms, I could offer other sexual things to other deities when they came asking. So we cut that deal.
I meant of course you are multi-orgasmic because you are you and cool and witchy. ;)
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Date: 2014-05-22 01:36 am (UTC)I don't remember what the name of the book was and even if I did, it would be on my nook so I am not sure I could lend it out. I could sign you in to my account or if you have a nook account and its a lendable book I could do that, but otherwise that is the big problem with e-books. They are really hard to share.
The good new is that you can find it all on your own!! Ibooks, Kindle, or Nook you type in free erotica and you will get tons and tons of stuff. Some of it makes the Frosts look like angels, so I avoid those. But some of them are ok, entertaining, and educational.
I am pretty sure that it was a reading a gay erotica that I some of that education info on BJ's but, its not the only one that can provide you with details. Yes I have read and do read guy on guy, girl on girl, and multi-partnered erotica. Hubby's not into it & I am ok with that, so I live vicariously through books.
Sadly I didn't know these existed, and probably would never have been brave enough to buy one prior to e-books, so that a plus in the e-book category.
Interesting on the Aphrodite & Oshun deal you got going. Must hear more later.
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Date: 2014-05-22 08:13 pm (UTC)I'm also curious about this sex magic book. I've never read one, because all of the ones I've looked at looked really cheesey or just nuts.