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Sex & Sex magic
May. 17th, 2014 06:02 pmOk so I usually do not talk about my sex life, it’s not something I usually feel the need to express or feel that people want to hear. Don't get me wrong, it’s a great, awesome, and interesting sex life, but as it is with the same man I have been having said sex with for the last 17 years and I have never truly had someone to talk to about it as some would have freaked out and others would have cringed and say you don't talk about those things, it something I rarely talk about.
Sex magic is also area I have never explored. Hubby is not witchy and not interested in being witchy. As this area belongs to him I never bothered to look it up or study up on it, which brings me to today's post.
WTF was that last night. It started out normal enough and for the most part was as vanilla, as we get. Not that we're super kinky, but kinky we can and usually are (it keeps things interesting). We were both tired and hadn't managed to hook up all week: kids that won't sleep + stress + bad work week for both of us = no sex for us :(
Still last night we heat up, lots of kissing and feeling and then Hubby's amazing tongue does wonders to me. Several orgasms, some repositioning and other fun stuff later, we get to the main event. A couple more o’s for me (yes I am very orgasmic, yeah for me) & hubby gets to his happy place bringing to my final orgasm. This is where things get weird… I went supernova, it took forever with wave after wave crashing thru me and things got fuzzy, really fuzzy almost as if I wasn’t here anymore right as or just before it happens. I’d gone dimensional. The world and hubby blurred as it went on and on and then suddenly it stopped, hard stop, and I was done. Not just done, I was spent. I had little to no energy left, rolled over to get water barley sipped it (and thank goodness it was out of one of those straw water bottles because I almost dropped it) and was asleep before I could blink, which is not normal for me at all.
Yes I can get sleepy and drowsy after, though just as often it I get hungry. Plus its usually cuddle time. So even when I am really sleepy and drained from the day, it’s rare either one of us give that time up. Even so the sleepy part I can get past. The extremely intense and mind altering orgasm is a different thing. I have had whoppers and really long ones too, but I have never felt like I was leaving this earthly plain.
It felt witchy and actually it almost felt as if that last one wasn’t even with hubby. Not sure if that makes sense. I could see hubby, and I know I was with him, but in that instant it almost as felt like I was jolted into the orgasm not receiving it as part of the night’s pleasures. Because I am so well sated by my last orgasm is usually a weaker and less mind blowing that the rest of them, not like the lighting strike that I experienced last night. I am really going to have to look sex magic up. Really going to have figure out where that o came from because it was not from hubby and if it happens again, really going to have to figure out how to protect myself or if I need protecting at all?
Sex magic is also area I have never explored. Hubby is not witchy and not interested in being witchy. As this area belongs to him I never bothered to look it up or study up on it, which brings me to today's post.
WTF was that last night. It started out normal enough and for the most part was as vanilla, as we get. Not that we're super kinky, but kinky we can and usually are (it keeps things interesting). We were both tired and hadn't managed to hook up all week: kids that won't sleep + stress + bad work week for both of us = no sex for us :(
Still last night we heat up, lots of kissing and feeling and then Hubby's amazing tongue does wonders to me. Several orgasms, some repositioning and other fun stuff later, we get to the main event. A couple more o’s for me (yes I am very orgasmic, yeah for me) & hubby gets to his happy place bringing to my final orgasm. This is where things get weird… I went supernova, it took forever with wave after wave crashing thru me and things got fuzzy, really fuzzy almost as if I wasn’t here anymore right as or just before it happens. I’d gone dimensional. The world and hubby blurred as it went on and on and then suddenly it stopped, hard stop, and I was done. Not just done, I was spent. I had little to no energy left, rolled over to get water barley sipped it (and thank goodness it was out of one of those straw water bottles because I almost dropped it) and was asleep before I could blink, which is not normal for me at all.
Yes I can get sleepy and drowsy after, though just as often it I get hungry. Plus its usually cuddle time. So even when I am really sleepy and drained from the day, it’s rare either one of us give that time up. Even so the sleepy part I can get past. The extremely intense and mind altering orgasm is a different thing. I have had whoppers and really long ones too, but I have never felt like I was leaving this earthly plain.
It felt witchy and actually it almost felt as if that last one wasn’t even with hubby. Not sure if that makes sense. I could see hubby, and I know I was with him, but in that instant it almost as felt like I was jolted into the orgasm not receiving it as part of the night’s pleasures. Because I am so well sated by my last orgasm is usually a weaker and less mind blowing that the rest of them, not like the lighting strike that I experienced last night. I am really going to have to look sex magic up. Really going to have figure out where that o came from because it was not from hubby and if it happens again, really going to have to figure out how to protect myself or if I need protecting at all?
